Before our climbing expedition in the Grand, Manoah and Max joined me and Conrad to climb Granite Peak in Montana, the line of peaks in the Beartooth Mountains. My inexperience and lack of knowledge in mountaineering led me to think that this was going to be a local campground-adjacent kickback. Well, I was wrong. Conrad is one of the most heralded and revered rock climbers in the world, so I thought he’d know how to plan an expedition for a beginner. No. Easy mode for him is super-hard death mode for a normal human.
Conrad told me it's a five- or six-mile hike to basecamp, where we’d rest before the summit climb. I’m thinking, “Cool, that sounds good.” Well, after the first four or five hours, I ask, "Uh, hey Conrad, are we almost there?” He says, "Yeah, you see that ridge over there? We’re going over that ridge." Okay. We go over the ridge. Then he says we’re crossing this meadow up ahead. Now, the meadow ain't like you can see the end of it. It's like, go east and just keep going east. Two hours later, I say to Conrad, "Okay, this is the end of the meadow. We good?" No. There’s still a talus field and a snow bridge in our future. But we have to keep going because we’re in the middle of bear country. We can’t stop to rest.
Conrad knew at this time that I had the idea to try to be the first Black photographer on The North Face climbing team. But after walking for 12 to 13 hours straight, Conrad told me, "If you want to be on The North Face team, this is your life." He probably meant to encourage me. But at that moment I was so exhausted, and instead I'm thinking, "What in the hell am I doing? This is not worth it.”
We finally get to basecamp. My feet are mashed potatoes. I set up my tent as quickly as possible. I'm still adjusting to the altitude, but I force myself to eat something and drink water anyway. We have a chill rest day. The next morning, we wake up at 1:00 A.M. for summit day. We make it all the way up 12,000 feet to the snow bridge area Conrad had said. Well, I took one look at that and I thought, "That don't look safe." It's a little wider than a couple of couch cushions, and that's what we’d be climbing. And we didn't have crampons or real ice picks or nothing because it's summertime, and it wasn’t meant to be an ice climb. Conrad says, "It's easy, just one foot in front of the other. But it’s a 13,000 foot drop if you mess up.”
"IT'S EASY, JUST ONE FOOT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER. BUT IT'S A 13,000 FOOT DROP IF YOU MESS UP."
-CONRAD ANKER
I'm looking at this snow bridge and I don't know if it's fear or if it's my Black person's intuition, but I say, "Hmm, my dreadlocks are tingling. I don't think we should do this.” I'm not trying to ruin the expedition, but I really don't want to do this. I'm scared. But I'd rather be safe than dead. I might be the one person out of my whole family to change our lives financially – I can't mess around and die out here. If I perish in the mountains, there’s no glory in that for me. I got too many people counting on me.
Thankfully Manoah and Max both agreed, and so that was it. Expedition over and we turned around. It’s a very hollow feeling to climb something for eight or nine hours, then not summit and have to turn around. But that's the thing, the culture of mountains says, "Push it," and then people die.
You always think of adrenaline as a “rush,” but on this excursion, the adrenaline lasts for five or six hours, and soon as you get home, you collapse. Gallatin Tower was my first multi-pitch, and I ascended the Skyline Arete climb. I’m still proud of what we accomplished and what I personally and mentally overcame to do it.
After Granite Peak, we drove from Conrad’s in Bozeman down to Jackson Hole to meet up with Jimmy Chin for our climb on the Grand Teton. By this point I felt ready for the Grand because I knew I had already been through worse conditions. And even though I don’t hype up famous people, I was a little nervous about meeting Jimmy; I was hoping I was good enough of a photographer to have his respect.
The Grand is unlike anything. For Granite Peak, we had to drive to the middle of nowhere and then hike even farther to the middle of nowhere. But here, the Grand is always looming. It commands your attention. We camped outside at Jimmy’s house where we could see the Grand under the stars. Out here I can unplug. I feel more connected to my ancestry and the people who came before. I am able to reset to my primitiveness and the will to not perish. And I’m reminded I’m not out here for glory. Reconnecting to this mindset is really important for me before embarking on another climb, especially with Conrad and Jimmy.
I preach that it’s okay that the average mountaineer or backwoods-loving person isn't putting their life on the line. It doesn't have to be that you almost die before it's worthy. Because while I love the outdoors, when it comes to extremes, I’m still trying to find my place. Am I out here trying to be the first Black photographer on The North Face climbing team? Or is it simpler, more personal than that?
There was a time on the hike when I really had to get right with myself and consider my motivation. Growing up in South Memphis is a badge of honor; it’s such a hard and beautiful place. But it taught me to listen to my intuition and trust myself. I realize I can only venture into the backwoods with Conrad because the outdoors is like the life I was given – harsh and unforgiving. I always want to make Memphis proud because it gave me my tools for ascension: my artistic curiosity, my instincts, and eventually my relationship with Conrad. He gets the feeling of survivor guilt that I experience.